Saturday, November 26, 2011

My Connections to Play

"Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is a necessity". Kay Redfield Jamison Contemporary American professor of psychiatry

'If life doesn't offer a game worth playing, then invent a new one.' -Anthony J. D'Angelo





    When I was a little girl my parents would let my sister and I play outside until the street lights came on. My mother would come outside to see if we were playing where she told us we could. We would go in the house to get a snack and a drink and we were back outside until the street lights came on. I remember riding my big wheel up and down the side walk. There were many times when we would race from one end to the other just to see who was the fastest. 




The girls would play hopscotch when the boys were being mean or playing football. I would play with the boys sometimes but I liked to play hopscotch also. Can you imagine how many times I played hopscotch in a day? Each girl would draw her own hopscotch and we would take turns playing on each one. 



                                                               What was a day without playing hide and go seek. I loved to play because I could run fast and even if I was found I could make it back to base quickly. There was another girl that was just as fast as I was. I hated when she was "it" I really had to run to get to base before she would.

The neighborhood I lived in was a great support to the children. They made sure that all the toys on the park was also in good shape. Once a month we would have a sports day. All the children would get together to see who was the best runner, hopscotcher and hide and seek player.

I feel the way children play today is different in one because of safety. When I was younger the parents looked out for all the children in the neighborhood just like their own. My mom had to meet the parents of any child that I was playing with. As a child I was encouraged to go outside and play with the other children. There were children that did not have toys we would share or make up games that everyone could play. 
I hope that children today are allowed the opportunity to play and be creative the same way I was allowed to when I younger. Parents should limit the amount of time children can look at television and play video games. The parents should actually go outside and play with the children and it could be family time as well as play time. 











  




   










Saturday, November 12, 2011

Relationship Reflection






Relationships are important to me because each one has a unique space in my life. They all represent a part of me without their relationship in my life I would not be balanced.

This is my handsome husband and best friend of 22 years.  I know without a doubt my life would be so empty without his love and friendship. He believes in me and always pushes me to be my very best.  I truly thank GOD for bringing him in my life.  My husband always says it is easy for someone to say they love you but it is how they show it that counts.

I know that when life rains on my parade he will not abandon me and vice versa. I need him in my life to help keep me positive and focused.  Thank you for all your support! My True Love

                                                                               


We were on vacation in Florida and I wanted to get a picture of family.  My daughters and my husband are my peace and joy. They help me go through life knowing I have truly made a positive influence on someone that matters.  

                                                                                                     




 What can I say this is my mom! She is the one that I owe my very existence too. It is not often that daughters can say they have a great friend in their mom but I do. She will always play a special role in my life. As each day goes by our relationship gets stronger and stronger. She knows that she can depend on me to take care of her if anything happens to her and I will do what is in her best interest. Momma I just wanted to say thank you for being you. Love you much


                                              

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This is my youngest daughter and she knows just how to make me laugh when I am overly focused on something. She is very energetic and I adore her personality and wit. She knows I love her even when I have to be stern with her. She makes me really proud that she is my daughter. I am truly blessed to have such a beautiful daughter. Momma loves you!!!
                       
          


           

This is my teenager. I have to thank GOD she has not given me any problems. She is so smart and she knows exactly what she means to me. We have such a great relationship she worries about me like a mom would worry about a child. I try to let her know each day that she can always talk to me no matter what. She may not always like my response but I am here for her. I must say she is a very pretty and intelligent young lady. I love you sweetie!!